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Thursday, June 6, 2013

Hey GirlChild, is your mom PREGNANT????

Umm, excuse me......

Girl Child told me that one of her friends asked if I was pregnant because of my gut...

So apparently people, I look like i'm about to give birth..............

When I asked Girl Child if she defended me, or even told said *friend* that I had given birth to 5 babies and it was non of her business....

Her reply: "NO....you are carrying a little weight in the midsection"

Me: "Thanks alot....."

My question is that why do Teenagers, and Women in general seem to want to point out all of our flaws???

So, I'M NOT A TWIG BITCH........

Get over it people, especially the little snot who started this whole thing....

And for my daughter not coming to my defense or even explaining that i had housed a lot of kids in this APPARENTLY GIANT BELLY, i'm at a loss for words...

Excuse me, Man Child, Girl Child, Things 1, 2 and 3.......
This MASSIVE BELLY did house you for 9 months....
You all are responsible for every stretch mark that, until today, I WORE with PRIDE......
I also breastfed every single one of you, even when i was pregnant with another child...
Seriously, i would go into the hospital breastfeeding 1 kid, and come our breastfeeding another.
So forgive me if my LADY BITS are on the wobbly size....
I was doing what doctors and science said was best for babies.....
So excuse the Hell outta me....

Thank you to all you TWIG BITCHES out there that makes our youth, teenagers and mothers SUPER SELF CONSCIOUS about our body....

WTH is going on in today's world that makes us think we have to be a certain size to be acceptable????

My Girl-Child followed up on this conversation with: "do you want to go enter a marathon  with her, so I could get in shape ?"

At this point I could have wrang her pretty little red neck....

But instead I came here, to pour out my vile about these TWIGS B's............

Always making my Girl Child feel like she's fat, and apparently they have the capability to make a Grown Woman (me) want to go hide in the bathroom to cry...

I am at peace with my body........
Sure I could loose a few pounds and probably feel better......only to have those pounds quickly come back.
Why? Cause raising my children, teaching my teenagers how to become adults, dealing with a husband who is both an insulin dependent diabetic, and epileptic, seem to trump A TRIP TO THE GYM............

My husband still finds me beautiful, and he's seen every bit of me including my guts ( 5 c-sections)......
He's seen me dressed to the nines, with blonde hair....
and he's seen me in his old work shirt, and cut off jeans.
He's seen me when i haven't managed to brush my hair or my teeth, because I was dealing with babies...
He's seen me after my c-sections and all the gory details that go into the first few days after giving birth.
And yet he still thinks that i'm beautiful........

So why do I give a FLYING F what this teenager said?

Because it seems to be the American way of thinking, that everyone has to be one size to be beautiful, smart, and successful...

And now it's in my mind, and in Girl-Child's mind that I am not good enough......
How the hell did I let a teenager in my head? And if she can get into my head, then damn she's good...

What's scary is that their are many more people, from young to old that are thinking the same way....

WE MUST BE SKINNY TO BE A GOOD PERSON
WE MUST BE SKINNY TO FIT IN
IF WE ARE FAT WE ARE SLOBS WHO DON'T CARE ABOUT OUR BODY'S
IF WE ARE FAT WE ARE SHOWING OUR KIDS THAT WE DON'T CARE ABOUT OUR HEALTH, AND DEAR GOD BECAUSE I'M FAT, SHOULD I EVEN BE ABLE TO BE A MOTHER???????????

But you know what......
Screw them.......
Because I don't care anymore...

I AM BEAUTIFUL
I AM A WIFE
I AM A MOTHER
I AM A DAUGHTER
I AM A GRAND DAUGHTER
I AM A AUNT
I AM A WOMAN WHO WEAR HER STRIPES PROUDLY....

I AM WOMAN, AND HEAR ME ROAR........

JAMIE...... ALL 170 LBS OF ME!!



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